Almost a decade

Today, my husband and I would have been married for 9 years.

Yep, 9 years, 2 kids, good times together, and no doubt we have our squabbles along the way, but it's all cool. My husband is a good man. You know, doesn't smoke, doesn't gamble, doens't drink, only comes home late when he is busy at work, loves his kids, enjoy buying presents for his kids too, relax by playing computer games at night, can cook a decent meal for me once in a while, more patient than me, a cool head, a Mr.Fix It.

Just for the record, he is such a cool head that at the delivery suite of our first child, the midwife left him to set up the resuscitation unit (or pretty much just a place for doctors to check the baby) while she attended to another lady next door...all along thinking my husband was a doctor! Wahahahaha!

Oh and whether he was just a cool head or one with very strage timing. He, my husband, yes, that man, the one that still make a detour to the video shop to return some videos on the way to the hospital while his wife was already in labour and almost screaming through each contraction.

That said, hee hee, he is also pathetically lazy when it comes to the garden, cleaning, and not very good when it comes to disciplining the kid. In our household, I do the garden, clean the house, cook the meals, shop for groceries and the one doing the disciplining. But then I can also be a control freak at times. I like the house clean in a certain way, clothes being stack in a certain way, what snacks to have and not to have in the house, this and that.

And he will probably say many things about me, such as his wife, yes, that lady there, the one that constantly struggles with road map.

But then, he will always tease me in front of his mom saying in Cantonese "我有一个好老婆" (I have got a good wife :) )